The Fine Line Between Trusting the Process vs. Controlling the Manifesting Process

By Ambila Nath.

Navigating the fine line between trusting and controlling the process can feel like walking a tightrope in a circus—one wrong move, and you could end up in a tangled mess. In pursuing our goals and dreams, we often find ourselves fighting the age-old dilemma of whether to let things unfold naturally or take the reins and steer things in the desired direction.

This article takes a deep dive into the intricate dance between TRUST and CONTROL, shining a spotlight on the pros and cons of taking various approaches. By uncovering the differences between trusting and controlling, you will be better equipped to tackle obstacles, hone your self-awareness, and celebrate your efforts and growth.

So, buckle up and join me on this wild ride as we uncover the fascinating dynamics at play when toeing the line between trusting the process and controlling it. It will be a rollercoaster of emotions, but hey, isn't that what makes life interesting?

Embracing the Difference: Trusting vs. Controlling

Trusting the process means having faith in your path, believing tach step will bring positive results, and going with the flow of events. 

On the other hand, controlling every little detail can stop the universe from giving as you are blocking new opportunities and causing unnecessary stress from constant micromanagement.

The Perks of Trusting the Process

When you trust the process, it's like telling creativity and innovation, "Hey, I believe in you!". It's like giving your inner genius a high-five and saying, "You got this!" By letting go of control and surrendering to the process, you open up a world of possibilities where brilliant ideas can flow freely. It's like stepping back and letting your creative mind take the wheel while you sit back and enjoy the ride. So go ahead, trust the process – let go of your need for perfection, embrace uncertainty, and watch as your wildest ideas come to life in ways you never imagined. Trust me, it's worth it!

Squelching Creativity and Innovation

When it comes to creativity and innovation, treading the fine line between control and trust is key. Too much control can be like trying to ice skate uphill - sure, you might make some progress, but it will be slow and awkward. 

Creativity thrives on new ideas, wild experiments, and thinking outside the box. If you stifle that with too many restrictions and regulations, you're putting a lid on the pressure cooker of innovation. Needing to control every detail of what happens or doesn't happen is putting a message out to the universe that 'I don't Trust You'. And with that energy, you are getting more of what you don't want!

We need a healthy dose of chaos and unpredictability to push the boundaries of what's possible. So let go a little, loosen the reins, and watch your team's creativity take flight like a majestic unicorn...or something equally fantastical.

Striking the Perfect Balance: Knowing When to Trust and When to Take Charge

Don't let yourself drown in the sea of details or cling to control like a security blanket. Deciding whether to trust the process or take control is like walking a tightrope - it requires finesse. Each situation calls for a unique strategy for you to reach your goals.

You can adjust your approach to find that optimum spot between skill and creativity by recognising the signs of whether you are in over-control or under-trust mode.

Embracing the Unknown: Strategies for Letting Go and Riding the Wave of Uncertainty

Use mindful techniques to stop your fears when life feels like a whirlwind.

Take a deep breath, and use affirmations, meditation or anything else to ground yourself in the present. Learn to accept and embrace the uncertainty, as that is all part of life's crazy rollercoaster ride.

Boosting Confidence and Building Resilience

See challenges as opportunities for growth, not threats to your well-being. Remind yourself of your past victories and strengths to boost your confidence. You've weathered storms before and become stronger, so you know you will do it again!

Conquering Challenges: Taming the Control Freak Within

Recognise when your need for control is calling the shots. Is it fear of failure, perfectionism, or a lack of trust in others? Understanding these patterns can help you loosen your grip and embrace flexibility.

Sharpening Problem-Solving Skills

Instead of getting caught up in the nitty-gritty details of every task, why not channel your inner Sherlock Holmes and focus on enhancing your problem-solving skills? Think of it as levelling up in the game of Life. By sharpening your ability to think critically and come up with clever solutions, you'll be able to tackle challenges like a boss. Plus, who doesn't love a good mental workout? Embrace your creativity and unleash your inner genius!

Trust me, it's much more exhilarating than sweating the small stuff. So put on your thinking cap, grab a magnifying glass (or just use Google), and let's crack this case wide open!

Building Trust in Yourself and the Process

Take the time to get to know yourself. Understand what makes you tick, your strengths, and even your limitations. Trust in your abilities to handle whatever curveballs life throws your way. You've got the resilience and resourcefulness within you - own it!

Nurturing Trust in External Factors and Collaborators

While trusting yourself is important, learning to trust external factors and collaborators is just as crucial. Keep those lines of communication open, set clear expectations, and don't hesitate to delegate tasks. Remember, you're not in this alone - teamwork (universe-work) makes the dream work!

Embracing Flexibility: Rolling with the Punches

In a world that's constantly changing fast, being able to adapt is like having the ultimate superpower. It's all about being as flexible as a yoga instructor on a beach in Bali, ready to pivot at a moment's notice. Whether you're dealing with a sudden career change, an unexpected plot twist in your life story, or just trying to figure out how to work the latest iPhone update, adaptation is key. So buckle up and get ready to adjust, pivot, and conquer whatever curveballs the universe throws your way. Remember: like Beyoncé says, "you gotta upgrade you," so always be prepared to level up and kick some metaphorical butt while you're at it.

Learning from Setbacks and Tweaking Strategies

Setbacks are like life's speed bumps - annoying in the moment but ultimately necessary for a smoother journey ahead. Instead of getting bogged down by failure, view these roadblocks as opportunities for growth and self-improvement. Take a step back, dust yourself off, and reflect on what went wrong. Maybe you needed to slow down, reassess your strategy, or simply learn from your mistakes. Embrace setbacks as valuable learning experiences that will only make you stronger and more resilient in the long run. So next time life throws you a curveball, remember: it's not the end of the road, just a detour to a better destination.

Closing Thoughts

As we wrap up our discussion on the delicate dance between trusting the process and taking control, it's like trying to walk a tightrope while juggling flaming torches - exhilarating yet slightly terrifying. 

Trusting the process requires a leap of faith, a belief that everything will fall into place if we just let go and allow things to unfold naturally. On the other hand, taking control means grabbing the reins and steering your life in the direction you desire, using assertiveness and persistence to make things happen.

Finding the perfect balance between these two forces is like finding the Holy Grail of personal development - challenging but oh-so rewarding. So go ahead and trust the process, but don't be afraid to seize control when necessary. It's all part of life's grand adventure!

Ambila Nath is a serial entrepreneur, certified coach, spiritual leader, international speaker and an avid follower of her passions. She is known for her 'Straight Taking Spirituality'.

With a corporate background in management consulting, Ambila is far from your stereotypical Spiritual Coach. She went from a 6 figure corporate job to having a spiritual business. She has worked with clients spanning 4 Continents and she knows that the greatest journey you can take is the one to build a relationship with yourself. Life isn't complicated - we are!

Ambila helps you manifest a business you love by aligning your energy, shifting your mindset and creating positive daily habits to grow your business using the 8-step Elevation process. The key to manifesting the Business you dream of. . . is knowing who you are!

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